At 51, I'm rigidly set in my ways — some might even say I'm "spectrum-y" — and I have a lot of opinions that don't correspond with those of most people. Yet during periods when I have been single, many people offer to set me up with their attractive and successful female friends.
So I decided to step outside my usual circle and interview some successful, attractive women I know less well.
First I turned to Celia (all names have been changed), a producer in her mid-50s with four kids.
I joined in September 2009, simply to meet someone special.
After I spotted David's profile on the site, I decided to get in contact.
So you have gotten yourself a match on Tinder with an actual female. I mean if you are well hung, I am sure she won’t mind the random dick pic. Ok so you have managed to engage her enough to get a response.
You peruse her profile and surprise, surprise, she has some legal sounding occupation. Well, I suspect you have no idea what to do or else you would not stumble on to this virtual agony aunt platform. She feigns an interest and replies to your messages a few times over the day but your obviously needy self wants to know how to get her to give you more.If you can’t take it, don’t waste her billable time! Conversely, I can never think of any men to fix up with my numerous friends who are attractive and successful women in their 40s and 50s."I would like to be in a real relationship, but I can't quite envision how it would work in my life," she said. I need to know that he somehow has an intellectual interest and likes discussing things — essentially, a smart Jew. All JDate has is a bunch of Israeli contractors who live in Encino; that would be interesting and fun, but not someone who would fit in my life. Nobody has anyone who matches me." I asked Celia if she thought those men who do meet her criteria were being taken by younger women. She also said she sees some "second-chapter gay men who had wives and families — they take away not one guy but two guys from the database.Also, guys who want an Asian second wife: You come home, they cook you dinner, you get a blow job, and that's it.I couldn't believe my eyes so a huge kiss was on the cards!